QUESTION 7: Were there any
distressing aftereffects from your NDE? |
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Studies have revealed
three types of distressing NDEs (dNDEs): (1)
"Inverse" dNDEs, where aspects in the dNDE which are found in
positive NDEs reported as pleasurable are perceived in the dNDE
as threatening; (2)
"The Void" dNDEs, existential experiences of vast emptiness,
darkness, often a devastating scenario of aloneness, isolation,
sometimes negation of being, ego-death; (3)
"Hellish" dNDEs, where the NDEr perceives overtly horrifying
or hellish imagery often as an observer but sometimes
experiences torment.
Responses and aftereffects of dNDEs include:
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An enduring awareness that the physical world is not the
full extent of reality. |
2. |
Personal life and social relationships are abruptly and
permanently overturned. |
3. |
Adjusting to a dNDE is similar to
culture shock and reactions to a dNDE are often
similar to
Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). |
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Aftereffects are similar to
shamanic pattern of suffering / death / resurrection
as an invitation to self-examination, disarrangement of
core beliefs, and rebuilding. |
5. |
Not for a long time, if ever, do dNDEs cause the NDEr to
lose their fear of death. |
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The late
Dr. Barbara Rommer's dNDE study concluded that, in
the long run, as with pleasurable NDEs, virtually all
dNDEs ultimately become extremely beneficial to the
NDEr. They almost always eventually come to see their
dNDE as
a blessing in disguise. |
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Nancy Evans Bush (2002), a dNDEr herself, who did a
study of dNDEs with
Dr. Bruce Greyson, has a somewhat different view.
Bush observed that the aftereffects of a dNDE is not so
easy to define. She noted not one, but
three categories of common response to dNDEs: |
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"The Turnaround" dNDE
(e.g. "I needed
that"): This response occurs when a dNDE
is interpreted by the NDEr as a warning which
may lead the NDEr into changing behaviors such
as movement toward a dogmatic religious
community where strict rules promise protection.
This is the response identified by the late Dr.
Barbara Rommer where the NDEr eventually comes
to see their dNDE as blessings in disguise. |
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"Reductionistic" dNDE
(e.g. "It was only a
hallucination"): This response occurs
when a dNDE allows the NDEr to repudiate the
meaning of their NDE which does not fit into a
safe category. Bush speculated that people in
this category might find psychological peace,
but only temporarily. (p. 106) |
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"The Long Haul" dNDE
(e.g. "What did I
do?"): This response occurs when a dNDE
causes the NDEr to be "haunted" or struggle for
many years with the existential implications of
their dNDE. A religious element of their NDE is
often expected, but is absent. This category of
dNDEr is
most likely to seek counseling or therapy. |
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Although Bush found more categories of response than Rommer did,
her conclusion, like Rommer's, is optimistic: |
"A psychospiritual
descent into hell has been the experience of saints and
sages throughout history, and it is an inevitable
episode in the pervasive, mythic theme of the hero's
journey. Those who insist on finding the gift, the
blessing of their experiences have the potential
ultimately to realize a greater maturity and wholeness"
(p.129). |
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